Forgiveness

Matthew 6:15 - But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

This is a requirement for making into that eternal kingdom.  But how can I forgive them when they have caused me so much pain???

We have a chance at being forgiven for all the things against The Most High that we have done. All the times in our lives when he was wanting us to live to our potential and instead we chose to exist on a base frequency in direct opposition to his word.

I don't think that people truly understand the kingdom to come and the ruler of it.   Once you begin to understand His Power and majesty you know that he will demand nothing less than obedience. It was said that The most High is soo holy that not one sin can exist in his presence. 
 NOT ONE......

What if you died and were judged, and you just found out that all the lies you told held the same merit as a murderer??
1 John 1:8 “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.”
James 2:10 “For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all.”

Colossians 3:13 - Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also [do] ye.

"We will know the work of forgiveness is complete when we experience the freedom that comes as a result. We are the ones who suffer most when we choose not to forgive. When we do forgive, the Lord sets our hearts free from the anger, bitterness, resentment and hurt that previously imprisoned us. Most times, however, forgiveness is a slow process."~ About.com
Forgiveness Free's you from the anger that you carry around otherwise, it doesn't make the wrong undone or change what happened but it is allowing The Most High to carry it.